the frenchman’s recipe and cooking as a team ….

by Sharon Santoni

I don’t really remember when it started, but it seems like a while ago now … this thing we do when friends come over for dinner.

I suppose it is called sharing  tasks at hand, but it was never discussed or negotiated, it just sort of happened; once, then twice and before you knew it, we had a Tradition going on here.   It’s not rocket science,  just one of those little things that make a household run smoothly, and makes this blogger particularly appreciate her French husband.

What I’m talking about is preparing meals.  My husband is a Fine cook.  He comes from a long line of Very Fine cooks, and cooking is not only  in his blood, it’s  something he loves.

I can cook good family food, and although I shouldn’t say it, my desserts are well spoken of, but I shall never have that panache and in-bred instinct that comes down through the generations … if you’re lucky.

And that is why, if ever you come here for dinner, I’ll be happy if you compliment me on the way the table’s laid; and I’d smile graciously if you enjoy the first course and I’ll be worried if you don’t like the dessert …. but for the main course, non!  I’ll take no credit there, because  all the work will be my husbands!

So today here is the recipe for a man’s dish: la daube.    Tender meat, marinated and cooked slowly, served with pasta or preferably gnocchi.

To make a hearty dinner for 4 – 6, you will need:

4 – 5 lbs of boneless beef for braising, with the fat cut away and the meat in large cubes

1 bottle of red wine

3 carrots, peeled and cubed

1 onion with a couple of cloves stuck in the sides

2 garlic cloves, sprig rosemary

a good sized strip of pancetta, or the end piece from a cured ham (this is essential to the flavour of the stew)

1 large onion and 2 cloves of garlic, chopped

olive oil, 5 tps of flour

Firstly you need to marinate the meat, in the bottle of red wine with the ham end, the carrots and garlic cloves certainly overnight, and if you can marinate if for 24 hours, in the fridge of course, then all the better.

Next day, drain away the marinade, but keep it preciously to one side.    Pat the cubes of meat with kitchen paper, sprinkle with salt and pepper and sear them quickly on all sides in a pan.   Reserve the meat on a plate while you  lightly cook the chopped onion and garlic in olive oil.

For the next bit we use a large oven proof dish, but if you don’t have that, then a heavy based pan over the heat will do just as well.

Now put the seared meat, the ham piece, the fried onions and garlic into your heavy pan.  Sprinkle with flour, add salt and pepper, the rosemary sprig and a couple of bay leaves.  Add a little oil, then gently turn up the heat until the flour begins to cook.  Now reach for that precious marinade and slowly add it to the pan, stirring well to avoid the flour forming lumps.   You can let the carrot pieces and the onion with the cloves drop into the pan too, although they will be removed for serving, as will the herbs.

If you are cooking over the heat then bring the pan to a slow bubble and let it simmer, covered,  very gently for about 2 hours.   If after that time the sauce seems thin, then remove the lid and leave to simmer for another 30 – 40 minutes.

Same thing in the oven, bring to boil, then leave it simmering at around 200° for a couple of hours, and uncover to thicken if required.

I have seen this dish served with rice, but nobody in this household would approve of that!

Here we either like a big pasta like a fettucci, or small delicous gnocchi, and if I get to choose then I think polenta works really well too.

Bon appetit!

27 comments

Sheila January 31, 2014 - 11:23 am

This looks amazing and perfect for the winter. I will definitely be making this soon.
Thanks! xx Sheila

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francoise coadou-porter January 31, 2014 - 11:33 am

une daube with pasta !!that must come from your husband origins, Corsican I believe ???
I grew up in Brittany where you MUST have it with potatoes….so you can “mash” them in the sauce…it is making my mouth watering..
since being in Australia, I use a slow cooker which is fantastic…..
bon appetite !..

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Mimi January 31, 2014 - 2:47 pm

How nice to have help in the kitchen!

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Contessa January 31, 2014 - 3:12 pm

Since, I have your butternut squash soup down pat(we had it last night!)I think I will give this a go!I have the same arrangement here but my husband comes from ROME!WE do the same SHARON…..I set the table perhaps make a dessert and he does the pasta and the main course!WE ARE SO LUCKY!!!

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Fiona January 31, 2014 - 3:17 pm

Thank you for a lovely recipe … can’t wait to try it!

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Kelly January 31, 2014 - 3:29 pm

Beautiful! Thanks for sharing!

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Colleen Taylor January 31, 2014 - 3:52 pm

This looks so so good! What a great man you have, lucky you! I can almost imagine the aroma & the taste. Thank you Sharon for this keeper from your KEEPER! X

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Dorka January 31, 2014 - 4:02 pm

This is the same arrangement in Hungary too.The main dishes all include meat are the tasks for men(horsmen in the plain staying all the summer alone no other choice than cook for themselves) As I see the dish your husband makes is a boeuf bourguignon.
We make it in a huge bowl on open fire and as a side dish we do flour pellets roasted in a pan and then cooked in water or broth of the meat. (Eiergraupen or tarhonya)
In wintertime we make in the clayoven overnight.
Love from the cooold Plain in Hungary Dorka
http://www.dorottyaudvar.co.hu

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Heather in Arles January 31, 2014 - 4:12 pm

Yes, here in Arles, it is definitely Camargue rice that is served with a daube, but then again it is a daube of taureau! Yowza! Your husbands sounds so wonderful that it makes me want to run out to buy the ingredients to make it tonight.

And I can see that neither of us are fools…of course we found wonderful French men that can cook! 😉 Our “agreement” is the same as yours, for guests, I do the apero and entrees (I do a mean apéro dinatoire) and Remi does the main. It would appear that my cooking is not “fancy” enough for our friends…save for when they ask me especially for something like burritos…hehehe.
Bon Weekend,
H.

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lindaraxa January 31, 2014 - 4:24 pm

We were of the same mind this week. I’ll have to try your husband’s recipe. How lucky to have one who cooks! I could take a break once in awhile…

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ann hodgkins January 31, 2014 - 4:31 pm

One of my husband’s favorite meals from France.
You are lucky your husband likes to cook.
I am also fourtunate that my spouse is a very good cook.
We were discussing daube last week as he was thinking about trying to do it in the slow cooker.Beef,carrots,onions,potatoes and dry red wine.
A perfect one dish winter meal.

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ann hodgkins January 31, 2014 - 4:36 pm

Your pictures are beautiful.
Thank you for your uplifting blog.
It has become a daily treat!

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stacey snacks January 31, 2014 - 4:42 pm

I have tasted the Frenchman’s food,first hand, and I can attest he is more than a FINE COOK! Fantastic meal……..and one of the best fish we have ever eaten (and that dessert made by you was more than FINE too!).

xo

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Peggy Braswell January 31, 2014 - 6:16 pm

will definitely try this one. xxpeggybraswelldesign.com

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Sally January 31, 2014 - 7:41 pm

I will really enjoy your recipe for daube, Sharon…my other half is Italian and dearly loved as a wizard in la cucina, he just has that touch. You have made me smile at the memory of the time we first made gnocchi together, with english potatoes, butter and salvia :))
Thank you also so much for the really lovely dessert recipes you have shared that I have made…I was shy to comment when I first found you, but can say your delicious delights are very much enjoyed.

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Kim January 31, 2014 - 9:17 pm

Delicious, I’ll be saving that recipe for winter. My partner does a lovely man spaghetti but that’s about it … But he takes me sailing at twilight and appreciates my food so I’m happy.

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Michelle - Germany January 31, 2014 - 11:04 pm

Wow, this looks delicious, Thank you!! Will try on Sunday, using my ancient and much loved Crockpot slo-cooker! The Squash soup sounds delicious too…..but I am new to the blog so havent seen it sadly…Just love this page, beautiful and inspiring. <3

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Linda February 1, 2014 - 1:26 am

Sharon,
This looks like a lovely meal for a winter evening. Like you, I am very blessed to have a husband who is a very good cook. When we entertain we share the cooking duties.
Have a great weekend.
Linda

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Lolita Valle February 1, 2014 - 4:42 am

That sure looks like heaven to taste. Thanks for sharing the recipe to us.

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vicki archer February 1, 2014 - 5:37 am

All I can say is… I should have married a Frenchman… 😉 xv

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Jalon Burton February 1, 2014 - 8:36 pm

Hi Sharon – I have just recently returned to Blog land after a long absence and wanted to just stop by and say Hello again! I am so glad to be back with my blogging friends and your blog is just as beautiful as I remember it… I hope you have a great weekend and hope to see you soon!

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Anita Rivera February 2, 2014 - 12:02 pm

Oh this looks like a winner for a cold night such as what we’ve been having! Thanks, Sharon! Anita

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Karena February 2, 2014 - 3:39 pm

Sharon this sounds delicious in this wintry weather!
Thank you for sharing!
xoxo
Karena
The Arts by Karena

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Margaret February 3, 2014 - 12:45 am

Thank you for the recipe. It looks delicious. I will make definitely…

Margaret

https://www.decordesireforbeauty.com/blog.html

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Karen (Back Road Journal) February 8, 2014 - 7:45 pm

I’ll count myself among the others whose husbands enjoy cooking and are good at it. We both enjoy cooking for our friends and often share kitchen duties. La daube sounds delicious and if perfect for the winter weather we are experiencing.

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