a true story from Normandy

by Sharon Santoni

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I love to visit churchyards.  There is nothing morbid in my enjoyment, more historical.  Churchyards attached to the villages here read like history books, the genealogy of a small community laid out in the ground for all to understand.

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Just across the valley from us there is a very small church with a beautiful view and a tiny graveyard.  The cemetery receives a load of visitors because there is a former French  minister and Nobel prize winner buried there, but it’s two other graves that caught my attention.
Side by side there are two little tombstones, old and  difficult to read, but with some patience you can clearly make out the names of two young girls, and curiously the names are not French but English.  This intrigued me for a long while.  I imagined a family travelling through the valley early XXth century, a terrible accident, tragic deaths, then burial near by.  But that couldn’t be the case since the dates on the tombstones  are two years apart.

I asked around locally but nobody could remember any accident, or English family around here.

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Finally, a while ago, I discovered the truth behind the intrigue.
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An English lord came to Normandy with his beautiful young wife, fell in love with the valley and settled here.  They had a daughter who sadly died very young of an illness.  Two years later they had another daughter, and tragically she also succumbed to the same maladie, which today we’d call genetic.  The couple were overcome with sadness but still desired a family and decided to adopt.   A baby French girl was found and the family reconstructed their lives, they continued to live in Normandy.

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So how did I discover this? …. a history book?  …. No……
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One day while walking near the church I saw an elderly lady tidying the tombstones and laying fresh flowers.  We chatted about the weather and the view and the peacefulness, she had a pleasant face.  I asked if she knew anything about the mysterious English children, she smiled, she seemed pleased that someone was interested.  She told me the whole story.

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I listened quietly, touched by the way she told the tale, then thanked her and walked on.

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Have you guessed who she was?…
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48 comments

OhSoVintage February 12, 2012 - 10:09 am

Ooh, I had goosebumps when I read the last sentence as I hadn't guessed. How fascinating and so good that the story has been passed on for you to tell others. I know what you mean about churchyards. I also like looking at the tombstones and wondering about the people and their lives.

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Désirée February 12, 2012 - 11:07 am

What a story! So sad and so beautiful at the same time!

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Stefy S February 12, 2012 - 12:22 pm

sweet story!!!Thanks for sharing with us!!Congratulations for blog..I love it!
Hugs
Stefy

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welltraveled February 12, 2012 - 12:54 pm

Lovely story.. You are so blessed to live where you do.

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Kris Vogelsang February 12, 2012 - 1:18 pm

What a fabulous story…if we here in America would just slow down and talk with our elders more, imagine the things we'd learn!

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The enchanted home February 12, 2012 - 2:00 pm

What a beautiful story, the pictures are so peaceful…..and how wonderful that she had a chance encounter with you to tell you the story. Lovely!

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Delaine February 12, 2012 - 2:49 pm

This beautiful story is amazing…it literally has brought tears to my eyes. Sharon, thank you so much for sharing and unlocking this sweet mystery.

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Shannon@Cozy Home Scenes February 12, 2012 - 2:53 pm

Your true story is very interesting and It ended like a scene from a good movie. What a special surprise for you! I enjoy your blog very much. It is so interesting to see all the sights that you share from your beautiful part of the world.—- Shannon

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Virginia February 12, 2012 - 3:04 pm

Oh that is the making of a book my dear. What a wonderful story and your photographs of the stones capped with snow are just beautiful.
Bon dimanche,
V

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Virginia February 12, 2012 - 3:06 pm

Oh BTW, I traveled about 2 hours south of Birmingham last week to meet a fellow blogger from Belgium! We toured and photographed a beautiful old
cemetery in Selma AL.

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Petite Michelle Louise February 12, 2012 - 3:11 pm

what a lovely story. how serendipitous! it must have warmed your heart as much it did hers!

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Priscilla February 12, 2012 - 3:56 pm

Yes, I also, have goose bumps. I love to talk to older people. They often have the essence of the area and oh, such wisdom.
I wonder sometimes why tourists go on tours, stay at large hotels in big cities and then assume they have "done France". There are so many wonderful people and places and things to learn that are missed by those horrible concocted "tours" that one hears about.

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High Heeled Life February 12, 2012 - 4:18 pm

What a wonderful story… The last sentence revealing the woman was the adopted daughter … made me smile. How wonderful of her to respect the two sisters that had come before her and be taking care of their little graves. Thank you for sharing this beautiful historical story of love, respect, and blessings. xo HHL

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kathy peck February 12, 2012 - 4:23 pm

Chills and goosebumps. The makings of a great short story.

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Jan February 12, 2012 - 4:48 pm

Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story.. it brought a few tears to my eyes. I love old people and the wisdom they share.. and their caring ways.

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Wendy Chamberlain February 12, 2012 - 5:04 pm

What a wonderful story, thank you for sharing

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MAZL February 12, 2012 - 6:50 pm

What a beautifully sad story. Thank you for sharing it.

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Anonymous February 12, 2012 - 7:12 pm

I too love to wonder in graveyards, this story is so special.

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Today's Treasure by Jen February 12, 2012 - 7:32 pm

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Today's Treasure by Jen February 12, 2012 - 7:34 pm

Such bitter sweet history in graveyards. How perfect your timing was to meet the daughter and learn her family story.
Lovely post.

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Ivy Clad February 12, 2012 - 7:42 pm

My husband was looking through my blogroll early this morning & clicked on your post. After he read it he said, "Keri, have you read this yet? You need to read this." He has reminded me to read it about 5 more times since & now I see why! What a beautiful story. I had goosebumps and tears in my eyes by the end. Thank you so much for sharing this precious discovery.

Have a wonderful week!

Keri
Missouri, USA

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Lisa February 12, 2012 - 9:24 pm

Hi, thanks for sharing with us, I would have had the same curiosity to know the story behind the two tombstones. Lovely story lovely to know about people's stories. Thanks again. Lisa

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annie February 12, 2012 - 9:43 pm

Wow…the ending to your beautiful story caught me completely by surprise. What a lovely chance encounter…I hope that you'll meet again or perhaps this is just the moment that was supposed to be. Your story and your photos are so beautiful.
annie

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Pat February 12, 2012 - 9:50 pm

Great story. We have a grave yard on the property with several little children listed. I'm trying to find their stories. My husband loves old grave yards.

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sharon February 12, 2012 - 10:21 pm

Can you imagine how you brightened that lady's day by asking her about those monuments? We each have story to tell, but few take the time to ask or listen. And as pleased as you were to learn the story of those two graves, she was even more pleased to tell you. I believe you've made a new friend.

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Bonnie February 13, 2012 - 12:18 am

What a beautiful story. I know your interest warmed her heart.

I enjoy your lovely blog very much. I visited Normandy on a day bus tour from Paris in 2006. The country side was beautiful and I would have loved to explore and not be in a bus that was in a hurry.

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Babs February 13, 2012 - 12:38 am

The story is so wonderful and to actually meet, by chance,the adopted daughter, how exciting! Thanks so much for sharing it.

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Lore February 13, 2012 - 1:32 am

Beautiful story. I also love visiting cemeteries. Because of the stories and the art monuments you can find there. Here we have a beautiful cemetery, Cemetery of Recoleta (Buenos Aires), full of art and stories! They have guided visits, but the guides are historians never the families!

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Amy February 13, 2012 - 4:01 am

Oh, Sharon…that gorgeous story had me captivated but at the ending! It stopped my heart and made me immediately get tears in my eyes. Thank you for sharing it.

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Candylei February 13, 2012 - 5:29 am

I would live to see a picture of the dear lady. So touching!

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ME February 13, 2012 - 6:33 am

Thank you for sharing this lovely story; it was very touching. It must have been pretty special for both of you, as well! Love your blog, love France, and good job blogging so frequently. That's not always easy to do! I appreciate your words and photos, and what they evoke.

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Carol February 13, 2012 - 6:39 am

That is a beautiful graveyard and a very touching story. l love the way you happened to meet the adopted daughter and the way she tends the tombstones.

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cathy@home February 13, 2012 - 8:53 am

Amazing story.

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Delana February 13, 2012 - 10:01 am

Lovely, Sharon. No, I didn't guess the ending because it's too incredible. Thanks for sharing…now my mind is busy filling in the blanks.

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Maria February 13, 2012 - 10:56 am

Perfect story! I find visiting churchyards as appealing as you do… so many stories to be told. Great blog btw!

Maria

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Lana {lanalou style} February 13, 2012 - 1:54 pm

Well that graveyard looks quite beautiful with the snow and old stonework. What a story, glad you managed to work it out!

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heather @ new house, new home, new life February 13, 2012 - 2:02 pm

What a sweet story. That's one thing I love about being in a small town – you can learn the history first hand.

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Twist of Lime February 13, 2012 - 2:04 pm

Oh that is beautiful! I aam so glad she was able to share it with you…I bet it made her day!

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Jeanne @ Collage of Life February 13, 2012 - 6:53 pm

Love your charming story Sharon…and am so glad I am not the only one who likes to hang out in graveyards. :)xx

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Joseph the Butler February 13, 2012 - 8:16 pm

What a great tale! Just found your blog–very enchanting.

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Vintage Green February 13, 2012 - 9:30 pm

I too love to wander in cemetaries, but have never had such a sweet experience as that.

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Karen February 14, 2012 - 12:47 am

What a lovely story. I love historic grave sites and while visiting Massachusetts my friends and I found a relative of one of my friends. The distant aunt had died in 1747. It was so interesting and your story confirms that.
Karen

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Nancy February 14, 2012 - 2:05 pm

What a beautiful story! Thank you so much for sharing that!!!
nancy
Powellbrower.com

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Looking Glass February 20, 2012 - 1:50 pm

What a beautiful story. I suddenly feel so emotional. Lovely.

~ Clare x

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Betsy February 23, 2012 - 7:26 am

I am glad I read down to this story. Beautiful story.

I visit the hollywood cemetary here. The old stones and carvings I find so interesting and how you could tell at one time a little bit about the person by the carvings .
I don't find it morbid. I find it very interesting. Death is just as much a part of life as living.
Thank you for sharing this
Betsy

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Carole March 3, 2012 - 8:55 pm

Beautiful post. There are so many lovely abbeys in Normandy. Like this ruined one https://caroleschatter.blogspot.co.nz/2011/11/abbaye-de-hambye-lower-normandy-france.html

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Anonymous October 9, 2012 - 3:54 pm

can you tell me where the church is, going to Normandy? Can anyone suggest a charming, comfortable, (good beds and linens) place to stay in the Normandy area?

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Sarah November 28, 2012 - 1:36 am

What a beautiful, sweet story. Thank you for sharing this.

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